Thursday, October 17, 2013

the incident

Maddy and I were doing some grocery shopping the other day. We had just pulled into the bakery area where all the breads and cookies are displayed. I was walking, eye intent on the orange juice just beyond and I heard Maddy say "Hi, old Man. Hi, young Woman!" I looked up to catch eyes with a man - likely in his mid 40s with a bit of salt and pepper hair. It was admittedly a little bit disheveled and scraggly but he was by no means an old man. With him was a younger guy who looked to be maybe in his early 20s with dark black hair, he was more slender and decidedly the more feminine of the two but certainly not mistakable for a girl!

I am sure my face turned 15 shades of red. I was really embarrassed. I whispered a hurried "I'm so sorry" while trying to keep Maddy from adding more comments and move along to another aisle where I could hide in mother mortification!

They walked away with the younger guy teasing his buddy "...hey old man...". Oh the embarrassment I felt. I told Maddy something like "You shouldn't say that or make comments about people.". She just looked at me and said "I want to go and hold their candy bowls". HUH?

Now that the men had left the area I backtracked and looked around to see if I was missing something. Maddy jumped off the side of cart where she had been hanging on and took off down the aisle we had crossed over just before "the incident" and ran down to the promotions aisle where lo and behold:
 
I really, wanted to run and find those guys and show them the picture but even the remembrance of my embarrassment kept me from tracking them down. Old man - yes, but young woman? Maybe besides totally misunderstanding her audience I also misheard her actual comments.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

the state fair


Oh how we love the State Fair!!
So glad our best neighbor friends could join us.

Maddy's saddest moment last year was that she wasn't tall enough to ride the boat ride. Scott tried to sneak her on between us but they kicked her off and she's been talking about how this year she was sure to be big enough. We've actually used it through the past year to encourage her to eat vegetables and get enough sleep (what manipulative parents we are!). Turns out she was close enough this year that they let her on. Scott and Maddy found a place down center and for the first few swings of the ship, she had a HUGE smile on her face. I watched from below - I'm don't pretend that I'm young enough to enjoy this!

Once the boat started to go almost vertical on each pass, the smile began to slide. Sitting almost eye to eye with the terrified boy across from her didn't help matters much either. By the end Maddy came off a bit wobbly with a half fearful, half "green" look on her face. I don't think that she's so interested on going on that particular ride again. The combination of feeling like she was going to throw up and alternately going to wet her pants was new to her and she's not so certain that she likes it. Scott explained to her that this is the funny tummy feeling that people enjoy and it's why they ride the big rides.

Maddy's pretty certain that she won't be missing anything fun if she doesn't go again any time soon!
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Tuesday, October 1, 2013

the gooser

I had a great birthday last week. It seems that after about 18, your birthdays come and go with little fanfare - certainly without parties and games. But 37 for me will be one to remember.
 

 
I had been at the convention center all day and came home to Scott cooking peppercorn steak dinner with roasted red potatoes and a green apple, fennel, red onion salad (my husband is such a good cook!). Maddy was decorating the kitchen with streamers and balloons. Upon seeing me, she quickly informed me that she was the boss and that I should help her blow up balloons.
 
While I was trying (and failing) to blow up those long balloons that are used for balloon animals, she ran to get me a birthday crown to wear.
 
 
We decorated paper airplanes and then went outside to have a flying contest.


After a yummy dinner Maddy took me to her room and showed me her animals all set up in a circle to play duck, duck, goose. Because it was my birthday I got to be "the gooser" and Maddy was one of "the duckers". I tried to get her to play something that didn't involve me running her various dolls and stuffed animals around the circle and we finally decided to sing songs and tell stories. Had to change into our feety pajamas for that part of course - can't have singing and stories in your day clothes!
 

I had forgotten how sweet a simple birthday party can be. I'm grateful to Scott and Maddy for giving me a great birthday and one that will be remembered and cherished for a long time! I love my family.

DIY chairs

It has been a busy past two months with Tax deadlines, a trip to Las Vegas, my work convention, Scott's surgery, my bronchitis and then strep, Maddy's Hand, Foot Mouth virus and then the flu . . .

But despite all that, things are moving along in our kitchen. I need to clean up the kitchen and then take some pictures for you of how things are looking. But for now, I'll brag on my recovering of the kitchen chairs. Eventually we will probably get a new kitchen dining set but for now, a little change on the kitchen chairs goes a long way to update them.


Dad reminded me that there is a lot of history in this dining set. . .

"Mommy and I put the blue seat covers on many years ago. At one time, back when we bought those chairs in the 1950s, they had a floral pattern. This is at least the third iteration. Maybe even the fourth. In fact, I seem to remember that perhaps these chairs had a red and green plaid on them before the blue. Hmmm. I remember totally refinishing the table and chairs in our garage on Quailstone. Indeed, the chairs had gotten separated somewhere along the way and one or more had been painted. Probably that was the one with the plaid seat. Anyway, we stripped off the paint and refinished and reseated them into a complete set again. Turned out pretty nice, actually."

All that history is what makes my sentimental side scream "Out with the new - keep the old!" For now, that's just what we'll do. Unfortunately, a young, bored Toby chewed a chair leg or two  back in the puppy days and we'd probably have to find someone who could fabricate a new leg to match the correct shape. A dining set from the 50's is likely not worth the money.
























A little fabric, new cushions and some tacks to keep everything together and I say they look pretty sharp. I love DIY projects especially on a stay-home-from-work day while watching Hocus Pocus on the television!

The amazing Joe Satriani

 
At the end of August Scott and I drove to Las Vegas to see Joe Satriani perform. This guy is probably the best technical guitarist  in the world. I Loved it. He was so great and so humble and I am incredibly impressed with his talent. I don't know a ton about guitar playing but Scott does and he tells me great things about this guy. I didn't expect to enjoy the show nearly as much as I did.
 
While we were there, we also saw Journey in concert - that was a treat. It was a good concert but not nearly as good as the Satriani show interestingly enough.
 
Of course, any vacation includes finding some great places to eat.
 
We found Battista's "Hole in the Wall". It was truly a hole in the wall. The food was good and the atmosphere was fun. This place clearly has been around for quite some time with pictures of all the greats visiting the joint along the wall (Andy Griffith was in our booth).  The place was a bit expensive for the quality but we assume that with the free wine, of which we did not partake, it came out to be a reasonably priced meal.

The HofbrÀuhaus!
 
I stopped at the original which in Munich, Germany many years ago on a business trip. Scott didn't remember the name of "This German place that I've been told we have to try" so I was pleased to find it was something familiar to me. We had german potato salad and Wiernerschnizel - delicious.  



We found a great Mexican resturant off the strip that had the best homemade guacamole and pork carnitas.


The big restaurant we actually pre-planned to visit (all the others we just found the morning of our meal) was our Bouchon - a Thomas Keller restaurant. Thomas Keller is an American chef who is famous in the food world, not to be confused with the famous chefs from the Food Network world. I'll admit, I'd never heard of him until I read a book my mom gave Scott for Christmas about a big International cooking competition called the Bocuse d'Or but he's a BIG DEAL!



a crock of foie gras made Scott very happy

 
We had a great time even though it was Las Vegas (we are not really Las Vegas fans). The best part of any of our couples trips is of course, driving through Payson with anticipation at seeing my Madelyn! We love having time as a couple but oh how wonderful to come home to our baby.

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at the pumpkin farm

Well, a post from 2011 that never got posted can turn around and be a retro post! I give you
"at the pumpkin farm - October 2011"

I just found these cutie pictures. I never blogged about them. I think I was waiting to take a photo of the Jack-o-lanterns.
 




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Tuesday, August 20, 2013

a photo update



 Maddy has discovered the bicycle is way better than the tricycle. And don't worry, she normally does wear a helmet . . .!

 

Yes, a coat, dress, jean shorts and cowboy boots was her outfit of choice for our outing to Uncle Cody's - on a Sunday afternoon in August! 

 

 We ran into Maddy's long lost best friend Lyla at a birthday party. Lyla's mom isn't working anymore. We miss her at preschool.




Performed a concert "Up Close with Lex de  Azevedo" this past week. What a wonderful experience. 12 year performing with such a talented composer has truly been a blessing.
 


Yup. Countertops. Not a great picture so don't bother enlarging it - I'll have to blog a better photo later 
 
Maddy and the two boys from around the corner decided to have a punch fight. They went through a brand new package or two of Squeeze Its. Maddy must have had the "cool raspberry" or something since the boys were blue.

 

A selfie at the pool. Tyra would be impressed with me for practicing my "inhale"


Maddy's crazy hair from this morning. How in the world does she manage to do that in one night ?!!!?

 

Thursday, August 8, 2013

the day we visited the University Hospital

On the 23rd of July Scott was out riding his motocross bike and took a fall and broke his humerous bone - the large bone in his upper right arm. He was on a warm-up lap waiting for a few buddies to arrive and looked away for a moment and didn't quite make a turn. Normally, this would have been no big deal. He was going 10 miles an hour and has fallen plenty of times. This fall, however, was different. The weight of his bike, and his body, all focused on one bone falling on one perfectly placed rock meant his first broken bone. Well actually, his first broken bone was a few weeks before - a small stress fracture in his foot - but we won't count that.
Love his left handed signature
So, he's laying there and tried to reach up with his right arm to lift the bike off him and realizes "oh darn" (maybe something more strong but we'll edit here) "my arm is not moving." He said it was like a big piece of meat just hanging off. Gross and very disconcerting.
He got out from under the bike and cradled his arm and started to walk back to the parking lot. After a mile or more of walking (in 100 degree weather with his helmet and goggles still on) he came to the vehicles where a few other riders saw him and could tell he was hurt. They retrieved his bike, loaded it into his truck, and drove him and his truck to Lakeview Hospital in Bountiful. Thank goodness for brothers in the motocross community!
I was unfortunately swimming at the pool that evening with the neighbor and didn't have my phone handy. I always have my phone handy. Scott laments at how handy my phone always is. Until today.
After some time at the ER in Bountiful, they decided that he should be transferred to the University Hospital. Since I was unavailable (now at Leatherby's with the neighbor and our kids with my phone, of course, still in the car) he caught a ride in an ambulance.
I received a call from him (his 8th) almost the minute I walked into the house. After telling him we had just gotten home from swimming I asked where he was. He said "in an ambulance on the way to the U Hospital". What!!!??? I dropped Maddy at my mom's for the night and drove up to be with him in the ER.
 
By the time I arrived it was around 10pm. They did a bunch of x-rays and told him that they would try to reduce the fracture (set the bone) and then splint the arm and check with more x-rays. If the bones were relatively straight (angles no more than 20% and 30% off ) then they could allow the bone to heal on its own in a split. They sent me out of the room and brought in three big guys to hold Scott down while three doctors cranked on his arm. Even with the drugs he said it was excruciating. They told me that I was going to leave because there were too many people in the room - I suspect it was because they didn't want me to witness them making him yell out. They set it twice and finally got it to a place they thought acceptable. They splinted him up and sent him back to radiology. The angles were 7% out of 20% and 19% out of 30% - within acceptable limits. The plan was to wait for the surgeon Dr. Kubiak to see the x-rays in the morning and decide whether to let this heal as it was, or to do surgery. Scott was in pain every time he moved. He could feel the bones moving around and sharp pains with each movement. His vote was for surgery!
 
At about 3am they moved us out of the ER and to a room in the care unit for the evening. They brought me some blankets and pillows and brought a CPAP for Scott and at 4am we tried to sleep. Tried.

At 6am the resident came back and told Scott that Doctor Kubiak, after looking at the films, decided that he should do surgery. They could either put a plate along the bones and screw them in, or a rod down the middle of the bones to hold them straight. He wouldn't decide until he got into Scott's arm and assessed the situation. We waited several hours and at about 2pm on the 24th I sent Scott along into surgery.

I took the opportunity to drive home and shower the chlorine out of my hair and grab some clothes for Scott (his shirt was cut off and his padded motorcycle pants were less than comfortable). I returned to the hospital just in time for Dr. Kubiak to come and tell me that the surgery went well, he put a plate on the bone and it would heal beautifully now and ever so straight.

He then said that he found something really interesting - something he'd never seen before. When the bone broke in two, the top half split up the middle slightly and allowed the nerve to get into the crevice. It then snapped shut with the nerve pinched inside. This explained why Scott was having trouble with his wrist and with numbness in his hand. He said that during surgery they had to pry the bone open to pull out the nerve. Good thing was the nerve was not cut, only crushed.

The Doc explained that had he not found this in surgery - had we allowed the bone to heal on its own - we would have been back in a month or two after the bone healed to a point where it actually severed the nerve. We would have been in surgery anyway to repair the nerve with a nerve graft which would most likely have had lasting problems.

Like me, Dr. Kubiak was thankful that we opted for the
surgery and that he was able to find the problem now.

After a few more hours of waiting, they took me to the room where Scott would recover and eventually they brought him in, loopy and acting silly because of the anesthesia. I was so happy to see him doing well. Anesthesia, in the past, has brought vomiting and migraines so silly-loopy was good. He had a big bandage from behind his shoulder all the way down to below his elbow. No cast or split, just a sling to support his arm and a brace they brought later for his wrist.

We stayed another night in the hospital and came home late in the afternoon two days after the accident.

It's now been two weeks and he still cannot lift his fingers or his wrist. When he got back to work he told me that he could depress the mouse but he couldn't actually lift the finger to "unclick" the mouse. We went back to see Dr. Kubiak this morning and he said that the pins and needles and electric shocks and hypersensitive skin was a great thing - it means that the nerve is coming back to itself. He agreed with my assessment that the full capacity of that nerve may not come back for up to a year. He did think that Scott needed some help with his wrist - something to make sure that the muscles and joints didn't atrophy as he waited for the nerve to come back. Off we went to the hand therapy clinic where they fabricated the coolest looking splint I have ever seen.
 
 
This splint holds each finger and his wrist up so they don't flop down. It has rubber bands so that he can grip or push his fingers down and they will return back up. The therapist said that this will allow him to, hopefully, type and have more overall function as he can push fingers down on his own and then the rubber bands will lift the fingers back off the keys. Who comes up with this stuff? Too cool.
 
I personally think that you should be able to pay extra to get one that comes with the ability to shoot a web or darts.
 
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Tuesday, August 6, 2013

document the transfer


When mom and dad moved to a new house, I inherited a bunch of children's storybooks. I found "The Read-it Yourself Storybook" and immediately added it to the "keep" pile. It was a book of several stories and just looking at the pictures took me back to my kid years.

I was so pleased to find my name written on the back of the front cover. I suppose part of my strong connection was because this was My book.

Then I turned to the inside of the first page and found the following:

 
 
I laughed out loud!

I have no idea what book cousin Ben got in exchange for this one, one with an inscription to "Melissa ma'dele". I'd love to know but I suspect that the book is long gone. I can just imagine mom and Aunt Luan secretly swapping books behind Grandma'dele's back so she wouldn't get her feelings hurt - knowing that the swap left books more suited to their children. Or perhaps one of us was gifted a book we already owned? Whatever the case, I love that the transfer is properly documented for history. This book is all the more sentimental now for me!

Friday, August 2, 2013

One of these days . . .

We've been busy around here clowning around . . .
 
 
communing with chickens . . .



Just being plain, old, silly . . .


 
One of these days I'll be able to breathe (maybe when this death cough I have goes away) and I'll tell you about our countertops that are coming, about Scott's hospital visit, about girls camp, about the western party at work.
 
One of these days . . .